Gerrit Gielen

In a world that often pulls us outward—toward endless distractions, comparisons, and chaos—the art of self-love invites us to turn inward, where true power and peace reside. But why does self-love matter so profoundly? It is the quiet force that aligns us with the universe’s deepest truths, transforming how we experience life. Imagine the universe as a duality: the external world of sights, sounds, and interactions, and your inner world of thoughts, emotions, and essence. As we grow spiritually, our inner world expands, growing vast and boundless until it encompasses everything. At the pinnacle of this expansion lies oneness—a state where you become the One, and the outer world dissolves into the infinite expanse of your being.

This is the God level, the highest vibration in existence, a realm so sublime it’s impossible to comprehend. It dances with the concept of infinity, that intellectual marvel we chase but can never fully grasp. Infinity defies limits; no matter how large a number you conceive, you can always add more. There is no “highest” point—it’s eternally greater, more intricate, more awe-inspiring than our minds can hold. Yet, infinity exists, just as the God level does. In this state of pure oneness, there is no outer world, no separation. Time and space, those anchors that define our position in the external realm, fade away. They are merely relationships to what’s “out there,” and when “out there” vanishes, so do they.

What binds this oneness together, preventing it from unraveling into nothingness? It is self-love—the profound, unwavering self-love at the God level. In this inner-only reality, self-love becomes universal love, embracing every star, every soul, every whisper of existence. For everything in the universe is part of God’s inner world. Self-love is the glue of creation, the foundation upon which the cosmos stands. It is love for all that is, because all that is, is you.

When we tap into this source, we feel an overwhelming surge of love. The art of self-love, then, is the sacred practice of connecting with this divine oneness. It’s simpler than we imagine, yet profoundly elusive because it’s so innate, so woven into our being. It begins with a realization: every beauty we encounter— a blooming flower, a sweeping landscape, the melody of a song, the sheer miracle of being alive—is a reflection of our own inner beauty.

Wander through nature, and witness the magic: vibrant plants swaying in the breeze, animals darting with purpose, the sky painted in hues of dawn or dusk, sunlight filtering through leaves. Each element is unique, yet they harmonize into a singular, breathtaking whole. This is oneness in action—diversity uniting in perfect balance. And here’s the revelation: when we savor this beauty, we’re savoring ourselves. The harmony we admire is the harmony within us. Beauty isn’t “out there”; it’s a mirror of our soul’s elegance.

Consider a single flower in full bloom. Why does it stir such wonder? Because its grace echoes your own. When you pause and whisper to yourself, “This is my beauty, this is me—how magnificent I am,” self-love ignites. As you immerse in nature’s tapestry, feeling the threads of life weave into unity, you connect to that God level. You belong here; you are integral to this symphony. All the splendor, the serenity, the intricate dance—it’s your splendor, your serenity, your dance.

This awakening births self-love within you. It empowers choices: where will you direct your focus? You could dwell on anger or worry, letting thoughts spiral into regret or fear, pulling you away from your center. Or you could choose beauty—a radiant sunrise, a gentle wave, a moment of quiet joy—and open your heart to it. Recognize it as your inner light, and self-love flows naturally, like a river returning to the sea.

This is why we call it the *art* of self-love. It mirrors the artistry of nature itself, rooted in aesthetics and awareness. It’s the practice of noticing beauty everywhere and claiming it as your own. Say it aloud: “This beauty is mine.” In that instant, you’ll feel a deep appreciation for your essence, linking you to the timeless God level. Your soul transcends space and time; it is eternal, infinite.

Ultimately, the art of self-love is the joyful embrace of your own beauty. Every stunning vista, every harmonious note, every spark of wonder you encounter is a reminder: You are beautiful. You are whole. You are one with the universe. Step into this truth, and watch your world transform—not from without, but from the boundless love within.

© Gerrit Gielen

This text was conceived and written by me and then made more fluent with AI.

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